Like many of you, I am unable to go out and socialise with friends and family, let alone meet anyone outside of my ‘bubble’ due to this fucking pandemic. So, I sit at home, mainly alone, sometimes drunk, always horny. How do you have sex during a lockdown?
This is something I have been thinking about for some time. Loads of people must be a similar position. You live alone, you don’t have a partner and you have no way of meeting anyone even for a casual fuck because everywhere is shut. So, I bit the bullet and signed up for a sex dating website. For those of you unfamiliar with the concept, its just like any other dating website except members are looking for sex or chat not wedding bells and cake.
My experience so far has been different for want of a better word. Have I got laid? No!. Have I been hit on? Yes, many times! Im not sure if the activity is unusually high right now due to people being unable to socialise in other ways or if this is the norm but most days I wake up to 5-10 new messages. Some funny, intriguing and others simply bizarre. What I do find interesting is the amount of people who join these adult dating sites and don’t post a photo but expect you to reveal your most intimate thoughts to a faceless stranger. I guess this could be a turn on for some. Not me however. I like to get an idea of the person behind the screen before I get carried away.
So far, I have not got to know anyone nearly well enough to commit to meeting up or even some cam sex which appears to be a popular thing around these sites. I have exchanged multiple messages with several members and continue to chat almost daily with a couple. I think the type of person who joins a sex dating site has a fairly low attention span. They often move a little too fast for my liking and I’m not sure if any will hang around long enough for me to trust them enough to meet up.
To be continued…